Wednesday, April 4, 2007

Vengeful Mermaids


Mermaids in Celtic myths are always beautiful and usually friendly, even helpful to sailors and fishermen. However, when pushed, they can reveal an ugly side. In Scotland, they tell the story of the Knockdolion family who had a large house on the shore near Girvan. At night, a mermaid would come out of the water and sit on a large black rock. There she would comb her long blond hair and sing for hours. The lady of the Knockdolions felt that this serenade was annoying her baby, and ordered her servants to destroy the rock with heavy mallets. When the mermaid returned the next night and saw her favorite seat was gone, she sang:
Ye may think on your cradle--I'll think on my stane;And there'll never be an heir to Knockdolion again."
("Stane" means stone.)
Not long after, the baby's cradle was found overturned, and the baby dead beneath it. All the Knockdolion children died like this soon after they were born and the family became extinct. Celtic myths of destructive mermaids are not common but there are several.

The Goddess Aine


The Goddess Aine has three forms: a mermaid, a young woman and a hag. As a Celtic mermaid she lives at the bottom of Lough Gur (Enchanted Lake). As a young woman she is a powerful creative goddess, who made the fairy people and gave life to the earth. As a hag she defends her realm under the lake.
One day, the Earl of Desmond found Aine in her Celtic mermaid form combing her hair by the lake. He sneaked up on her and stole her magic cloak, which put her in his power.She agreed to bear the Earl a son in exchange for her freedom. This boy grew up to be exceptional in every way, once jumping into and out of a bottle. Later, due to a curse, he was condemned to spend eternity under the lake with his mother.
It is said that once every seven years Lough Gur dries up and you can see the sacred tree at the bottom of it. The tree is guarded by Aine in her hag form, while she knits the fabric of life. A man on horseback once tried to steal her cloth, but Aine made the waters of the lake retrieve the cloth, and a part of the horse as well.
The King of the Gold Mines was once accused of adultery by his wife-to-be because he was given a present by Aine. In her Celtic mermaid form she has made a likeness of him out of magic seaweed. The story ends tragically when the king is killed and his betrothed dies of grief. Mermaid Aine changed the lovers into two palm trees that grow together.



AINE

Aine is one of the Great Goddesses of Ireland. She is a Moon goddess, a Love goddess who encourages humanlove, and the Fairy Queen of Munster. Aine (pronouced 'aw-ne') rules agriculture, fertility, crops, and animals. She was originally a Sun goddess who could take the form of a Lair Derg, a red mare that no one could outrun. It is possible that Aine and Grainne alternated as goddesses of the waning and waxing solar year, changing place at the solstices.
Aine's father, King Egobagal, is one of the Tuatha de Danann. Also called Aine Marine and Aine of Knockaine, she is associated with Dnoc Aine/Knockainy (Aineis Hill_ in Munster, and with Dun Aine (Dunany Point) in County Louth. People with the surname O'Corra are said to be her descendants.
There are several myths about Aine who some say was a mortal woman who was taken and enchanted by the fae. She possesses a magical ring that can reveal faeries. Aine liked humans and often mated with men, producing faery children. She once made a magickal vow to never sleep with a gray-haired man. Aine kept this vow even after her jealous sister Miluchrach used enchantment to turn her beloved Fionnis hair that color. She used magick to kill Aillil Olom, the King of Munster, when he tried to rape her.
There are several stories about how Aine came to marry Gerald, the Earl of Desmond. Gerald came across her bathing in a river and fell in love with her at first site. He stole her cloak and refused to return it until she agreed to marry him. In another version he found Aine combing her hair beside the river, and used her own cloak to capture her. In yet another version, Aine enchanted the Earl, who them married her.
In any case, they had a son, Geroid Iarla, Earl Fitzgerald, who was called The Magician. Gerald who was under a taboo to never show that he was surprised by anything thier son did, but he broke his taboo by exclaiming loudly when Geroid jumped in and out of a bottle. The Magician then turned into a wild goose, and flew away. Disgusted with her human husband, Aine disappeared into Knock Aine. She is said to dwell there still, in a faery castle. Geroid is said to live beneath a lake, but will return one day to expel all foreigners from Ireland. Others say that Geroid rides forth every seven years, as a phanton upon a spectral white horse that is shod in silver shoes.
Invoke Aine for love spells, fertility, faery magick, abundance, prosperity, punishing sex crimes, keeping magickal vows, revealing faeries, bearing magickal children, and leaving unsuitable mates. The Sun and Moon are her planets, South West is her direction, and Air is her element. The red mare, rabbit, and swam are her sacred animals. Midsummer Eve (Summer solstice) is Aine's main feast day, when she is traditionally worshiped with torchlit processions through the fields at night. The first Friday, Saturday, and Sunday after Lughnassad (August 1) are also her sacred days. Some say that she claims a life at that time.

Fade With Me


like moonbeams
dancing across
the pristine snow
like stars in the
blanket of midnight
we'll know
we'll fly on wings
of lover's dreams
our hearts afire
flaming with desire
like children
as they play
we'll be free
in everyway
symphonies
of birds will sing
and whispers
of the trees
waltzing
in the breeze
dizzying love
arms wide open
gaze up above
come dance
with me
come fade away
and lose yourself
in my touch

How do you remember me

you wouldn't recognize me if you saw me
you remember rosy cheeks and smiling eyes
skin soft as a feathered wing
hair flowing in cascades to the ground
a pool of lush locks gathering on the forest floor
and a sweet voice
innocent and beautiful
enchanted a curse? a blessing?
no one knows
and none can tell
the one who can
has been shut upfor the rest of his life
in a cage of a hollow
lifeless log
enchanting, he called me
under a spel
lcaptivated by my so called beauty
and youth, I wore it in my hair
ah the hair, always the hair
not the beauty of the face
or the softness of the skin
but the long, heavy, deadening hair
i've cut it off since then
she doesn't require length
spikes suit me she says
i grow inside of this
hollow towering tree
she knows i can't leave it
no reason for a door
or window
or key
what keeps me there
is she

Reflection


They come they go
they plead
they seek
and everytime
I get to know them
they take a piece
of me with them
scattered fragments
of a broken heart
memories locked away
an aching soul
alone so alone
in a crowd
I wanted understanding
he gave me acceptance
he sought what I sought
and I never knew
I sensed it coming
but couldn't admit it
I was scared
it's been so long
before him that
a male came into my life
and stayed longer than a month
sometimes they wanted advice
sometimes they wanted comfort
sometimes they came not knowing why
and when they found me they cried
and my heart ached for them
empathy got the better of me
it always does
I know it's my path
I thought he was different
on the same level
coasting the same vibes
but with him...dark secret lies
how I held him in my arms
when he cried about her
his smother mother
opened that door
took him into my life
gave him comfort
as he gave me light
he was desperate
pathetic sobbing and crying
pulling me back in
I'd have promised anything
even though he hurt me so deeply
I couldn't bear to listen to that sound
it echoes in my head even now
he's slipping into darkness
as I fade from sight
he could have told me
the confusion and twisted logic
I would have listened
I could have helped
but he closed himself off
locked away behind a facade
of false feelings, living this lie
we're not so different
I live in fantasies and dreams
and he lives with his demons
trying to numb his pain
the agony of confusion
and despair that lives
in his heart, I was never a part
I gave myself
fully and completely
I let down every defense
climbed out of my high-walled tower
when he touched my cheek
but he kept a part of himself
always out of sight
hiding in the shadows
Betrayed, Burdened, Broken
I return now to my tower
where I am safe from loss
and understood completely
and remember that there
were reasons
but I will guard my heart
more fiercely and
trust will be hard won
and only my soul will know
if there really is that true "one"

They come they go
they plead
they seek
and everytime
I get to know them
they take a piece
of me with them
scattered fragments
of a broken heart
memories locked away
an aching soul
alone so alone
in a crowd
I wanted understanding
he gave me acceptance
he sought what I sought
and I never knew
I sensed it coming
but couldn't admit it
I was scared
it's been so long
before him that
a male came into my life
and stayed longer than a month
sometimes they wanted advice
sometimes they wanted comfort
sometimes they came not knowing why
and when they found me they cried
and my heart ached for them
empathy got the better of me
it always does
I know it's my path
I thought he was different
on the same level
coasting the same vibes
but with him...dark secret lies
how I held him in my arms
when he cried about her
his smother mother
opened that door
took him into my life
gave him comfort
as he gave me light
he was desperate
pathetic sobbing and crying
pulling me back in
I'd have promised anything
even though he hurt me so deeply
I couldn't bear to listen to that sound
it echoes in my head even now
he's slipping into darkness
as I fade from sight
he could have told me
the confusion and twisted logic
I would have listened
I could have helped
but he closed himself off
locked away behind a facade
of false feelings, living this lie
we're not so different
I live in fantasies and dreams
and he lives with his demons
trying to numb his pain
the agony of confusion
and despair that lives
in his heart, I was never a part
I gave myself
fully and completely
I let down every defense
climbed out of my high-walled tower
when he touched my cheek
but he kept a part of himself
always out of sight
hiding in the shadows
Betrayed, Burdened, Broken
I return now to my tower
where I am safe from loss
and understood completely
and remember that there
were reasons
but I will guard my heart
more fiercely and
trust will be hard won
and only my soul will know
if there really is that true "one"

Living Without You


I try to find reason
in this madness
you've left me
I never needed
a man in my life
absolutely
I wasn't single
just independent
I wanted the love
the connection
that we all seek
but I accepted
and made myself content
being me and knowing me
and not knowing the me
that was with you
*
Now I'm back to
being me
-without
-alone
and see how
much I've grown
with you
and with out.

The merchild


The water is her playground

Mama duck her nurse-maid

her giggles are the bubble

sand the dolphins her playmates
One day she'll leave the lake

and swim out to the sea

joining the other merfolk

in search of her lost family.
She was just a tiny merbaby

when a fisherman did find

the smallest of sea angel

tangled in his line.
The fisherman did have a

heart of love and soul of grace

he released the tiny mergirl

into the lake's gentle embrace.
The creatures of the lake

seeing the merchild left alone

decided they would raise

and love her as their own.

Lady Winter


Lady Winter

of sculpted beauty and chilling touch

tendrils of frosted hair

sleepy smiles and such.

Sorrow-filled eyes

sparkling with the hope

and promise of spring

over all the world

she waves her

chrystaline wing

enfolding the world

into a blanket of purity

rocking it to slumber

despair, decay

and death

are words we utter

to describe her

missing the hidden

raw beauty

the vulnerability

and fragility

nature become

sat her fingertips

an ice queen

is what we think

but without her

life could not thrive

and beneath her

gown of snow-white

and gaze of ice-blue

there would be no

reason left to

continue to dream

seek warmth of love

of regeneration

and of life renewed.

Dryad


You see that tree up on that hillso grand, so elegant so toweringshe is mine and I am hersI climb up her trunkand sleep in her embraceI dangle from her branchesand she shades me underher protective green canopy
She is mine and I am herswe are one in the same
She cannot survive without meand I cannot live without herto be taken from her lovingsheltering armswould be to die alonewe complete each otherthe mother and the daughterTree and dryad
She is mine and I am herswe are one in the same
You cannot see mebut you can feel mewith the caress ofmy falling leaves
You cannot see mebut you can touch mewith soft loving handsintimately and freely
You cannot see mebut you can sense mesupporting you withmy trunk of strength
You cannot see mebut you can hug meas I hold you closein an earthy embrace
You cannot see mebut you can hear mewhispering your namea soft murmer on ears
You cannot see mebut you can smell memy blossoms openingand blooming for you
You cannot see mebut you can taste mein the succulent fruitI offer unto you
You cannot see mebut you do know mewe are one in the samepray do not leave mestanding herealone and solitaryshe warns me of youever since I first learned to danceshe said "Daughter, aye therebe temptation in the arms of manbut he'll cut up your heartwoodbleed your roots dry"I heed not my mothershe has never feltyour love as I haveall I want is to breakfree of my earthy prisonleave my mother's shelterand dance when I wish to dancenot when the Goddess deems it so.
I love her and cannot live without heryet I would surrender my heartwoodsacrafice my very existencefor one night in your armsfor one kiss of your lipsfor one moment of earthly bliss.I break free allowingyou to whisk me awayinto your soft arms.
She is mine and I am herswe are one in the same
Why do you look at me so?Can you not see the magicand beauty in my eyes?Your kiss seals my fatethe caress of destructionI too weakened by the dizzinessyou have caused medancing me 'round and 'roundin neverending circlesall the while looking through meI, innocent of human loveas you tear out my green lockslighting them aflamethen you carve into my skinbleeding I bleedcrying tears of rainStop I beg of you...you continue the assaultcutting me down to sizeleaving me there to dieI hear her screamsyet I cannot reach her
She is mine and I am herswe are one in the same
Oh...Mother, I whisper in vainyou were right...I lay tremblingunder her tearful gaze, bowed downbroken, bleeding, dying-all for the love of man.

SoulHorse


She stroked the black mane of her Friesian warhorse. They lay in the green field, her head resting on his strong body, his curly black mane blowing in the wind. She felt safe and loved. No one understood the bond the two of them shared. She had always joked with her family that he was her soul mate in equine form.


This was knowledge that she kept secret. She knew his secret. As much as she had wanted to reveal it, she knew it would mean losing him forever; horse form or another. She wasn't really sure where this knowledge had come from, in dreams, she supposed. But the dreams were more of a reality to her than the waking world.


He came to her each night. She would climb off his back after a midnight ride and lead him to the stables. He would lay down and allow her to sleep beside his warm body. That was when the dreams first started. When she slept in the stables with him. He looked nothing like she had imagined he would and yet she knew. His hair was raven wing black, it was long, a mane of careless curls like his horse mane. His eyes were the eyes she lost herself in, waking and asleep. Passionate, intelligent, his body taut and firm, like was evidenced of his flank in horse form.
"Tell me your name. Please I need to know. Who are you?"
"You know who I am, you have always known." This was the only answer he gave her for months
"I awake and you are gone with my dreaming. When will I find you?”
"You already have. Look into my eyes." She did and she was stunned by the realization that she did indeed know him. "We are not meant in this lifetime to enjoy the physical love we crave. It would be unnatural." She burrowed against his hard chest. He stroked her hair back.
"I need you." She begged.
"You have me." He replied. "We can only be together in dreams, be content with that."
"Because in the real world you are only…" She began. He finished with a strong embrace,
"I am just your horse.” She smiled at the silliness of it, but it never reached her eyes.
"You are not just my horse. You are my best friend and companion."
"I am. But don't depend on me solely. I am a mortal as you are and mortality can still find me." She put her finger up to his lip, replacing it with a kiss.
"Shh, no more words, please, I couldn't bear it, again."
"You remember?"
"Of course I do." He kissed her forehead.
"Sleep now."
"But I don't want you to go." He touched her cheek with feather light touches. He kissed each eyelid. "Rest my love." She did and he left her lying beside the horse. She nuzzled into the horse's mane and he nudged her head.
Her sister walked out of the house and found her in the stables. "Will you ever sleep in a bed again? It's been a long time Loryn, you have to let it go." Her sister said gently, helping her to her feet.
"When I am here with Storm, I can still feel him. It's as though Storm has his spirit inside."
"Storm was his horse, so it makes sense, but winter is coming. The stable is not warm enough. Come inside I’ll make us some tea.” Loryn agreed and followed her sister into the house, after she kissed Storm’s muzzle.


“I have these dreams. I don’t have dreams about Collin anymore. I have dreams about Storm. There is a stranger always there, dark and mysterious. He haunts my every thought. I can no longer sleep.” Her sister Brianna hugged her gently. She knows how much Loryn misses her love. Their’s was a tumultuous love. It was wild and carefree, he taught her to embrace life, even while his own was fading.
“Do you think this stranger is Collin?”
“I don’t know. He tells me we know each other, Collin always said that. He also tells me only in dreams can we be together. Even when Collin was on tour we’d meet each night in dreams.” She sighed.
“Perhaps it is Collin and he wears a different face to make it easier on you, have you thought of that?” Loryn was grateful that her sister at least tried to understand her. She never reprimanded her or teased her about getting her head out of the clouds.
“I suppose it could be him. I am certain that Storm has something to do with it. I love him more than anyone now. We have only been together for a year. Remember? Collin surprised me with him for my birthday, the day before he died.” Her sister nodded.
“I do remember. You were so happy finally getting the horse you’ve always dreamed of. He is a gorgeous creature. Anyone can see the special bond you two share.”
Loryn walked into the stable and saw her neighbor’s 7 year old daughter climbing up the stable door. “Be careful Sonya, I don’t want you to fall and get hurt.” Loryn said.
“I won’t. I just want to see him again. Can I ride him today Loryn? Please please please? Momma said if you said yes I could and Collin he wants me to.” Loryn laughed at the pleading and nodded her head.
“Collin?” The name registered in her head.
“Yah, him and Stormy want me to.” The little girl stated matter of factly. She skipped over to the tack room and brought out the saddle and bridle. The thing that gave Loryn hesitation was that Sonya had never met Collin before, he had died before her family moved into the neighborhood. She put the thought aside and helped Sonya saddle Stormy up.
“How is this? Is the bit too tight?” The child asked eagerly.
“Not too tight, it’s just right. Are you ready for a boost up?” Loryn questioned her as she cupped her hands ready for her small foot. “Alyoop! There, now you look like a dressage champion.” The child stroked Storm’s curly man and nuzzled her face into his soft hair.
“What’s dressage?”
“It’s a type of horse show. It is like dancing. You dress up and then you dress your horse up and you dance with him in front of judges. Storm is a wonderful dancer. If you whisper in his ear the magic word he will dance for you."
“What is the magic word, Loryn?” Loryn walked up to the horse and whispered in Sonya’s ear “magic.” Sonya giggled at the word and leaned forward to whisper into Storm’s ear. The horse straightened up, stopped eating out of his bucket and stood at attention. Sonya sofly pressed her heal to his flank.
“Magic Stormy.” Storm took the cue and sauntered around the stables in circles, his head high, his coat gleaming and a horse grin on his face.
Loryn removed the saddle and bit from Storm, she kept the saddle only for conventional purposes. She never needed the aid of a saddle She preferred bare back riding. Despite the concern her friends and family showed she. Collin had warned her about riding so carelessly.
He had agreed that Storm would never throw her or hurt her on pupose, but supose something startled him?
The wind whipped the black mane of the horse, which tangled with Loryn's long hair. Against the blanket of white that the snow was, they stood out. together.
Snow flakes fluttered down landing on Loryn's long eyelashes and tickled Storm's muzzle. The wind caressed their bodies. Horse and woman flowed as one.
The sound of a branch breaking echoed on the mountain. Snow tumbled down and the horse neighed. Loryn spotted the hunter and dug her heels into Storm. Storm, startled reared up and charged toward the hunter.
Loryn held on with all her might, but the snow was heavy, weighing her cloak down. She seemed frozen to the horse. The only way she wouldn't be crushed under the hooves would be to let go. Her hands warmed of their own accord and loosened their grip on the mane. She closed her eyes and prayed to be safe.
She flew off the horse's back and landed hard her head hitting an ice encased boulder. He held her in his arms. He placed a gentle kiss upon her lips. Her body temperature warmed and the ice thawed from her body. All was white, not even Storm was here, in this place.
"Loryn, come back to me." She opened her eyes seeing those dazzling, familiar eyes tat she loved. He knelt on the snow a glow surrounded him. For one second the face of her true love looked upon hers. It was then replaced with another.
"It is easier this way." Collin's voice lulled. "Loryn it is time to go back. You were never meant to come here so soon."
"And you were?" She questioned.
"It was my path."
"You are Collin?"
"I am. I am many names and all your love."
"Will I ever see you again?"
"In dreams, awake and find Storm, he needs you."
"Wait, I..." She opened her eyes and struggled to sit up. Only bruises showed her battle scars. Storm had wandered over the frozen lake. The ice was thin where he treaded. She ran to him.
"Storm!!!" She screamed.
"Oh no, not again.. I cannot lose you." She coaxed him back over to her where it was thick ice and safe.
He obeyed her and walked over to her. She wrapped herself around his neck and cried with relief. She now knew, that forever, her Soul Horse, her soul mate would be with her and watch over her.

The Four That Were One


"The Four That Were One"


There was a time when the land was fertile, when trees and plants thrived and animals and people co-existed and raised families,

when the rivers flowed freely and rain showered down life.

There was a time when people didn't thirst for water.

If only the rains were to come once more it would stop all the suffering.

She sits on a haystack angered at Mother Nature. She doesn't understand why she would betray the world. How dare she deprive them of water!

Fires erupted everywhere, spreading, and destroying the forest and houses. Winds swept away cattle, and the earth cracked, parched and dying. It was like Death had come upon the village.
She hugged her knees close, tears streaming down her cheeks. There was such an emptiness within her. She loved him, she truly loved him. She loved her family, her sweet children. She loved the feel of the dirt beneath her feet and the wind in her hair and yet, she grieved. She did not know why, until one day, while she was walking along the dried riverbed she had a vision.
"Sister, sister return to us. Take up your instrument and play. We are only three without you, three we will remain, we cannot bring order without your help. Remember who you are." The plea shakes the ground that she stands upon and she falls to her knees. She doesn't know what to do. She doesn't know why this is happening to her. Rayna picked herself up and ran through the dead forest. She could feel the wind whip around her, lashing out angrily.
"You must remember! I cannot stop myself without your help. Find him, go to your husband and ask him who you really are." She closed her eyes willing the wind away, but it swirled around her body lifting her up. She landed in front of her door. Smoke billowed from all openings of the house and flames engulfed the house. She ran in frantically searching for her two children.
"Why are you doing this to me? What have I done?"
"It isn't what you have done, sister, it is what he has taken away from you. I cannot save your children, I am only a messenger of Mother Earth, as are you. You must remember or all is lost." Smoke blinded and choked her. She struggled to one end of the small house to the next calling out for her children. But only silence answered back.
"Rayna, Rayna I'm coming!" His voice called forth. Her savior, her husband has come at last.
"Where are the children?"
"I have the children. I am coming my love, my love, I am coming." Erik called out, rushing back into the house for his wife.
She fell to the ground and spotted something over in the corner next to the cooking pot. She had never seen anything like it before. It was of a color she had never encountered, a glint of silver, with a mixture of blues. Shiny and beautiful, fit for a Goddess. She touched the edge of the piece of material and her head swam with images of water. She lay curled on the ground holding the material as her spirit was whisked away to another time.

It was the meeting of the Sisters long ago. Willow was the Mistress of Earth, Ariel was the Mistress of Air, Blaize was the Mistress of Fire, and Rayna the Mistress of Water. Four sisters, four elements, together they create and control the forces of nature.
Willow stepped away from the tree, stretching gracefully. She stepped to the edge of the water seeking out her sister Rayna. She could see Blaize already dancing around the bonfire and Ariel floating on the wind. "Come sisters let us play for our Mother, let us sing for our Father."
"Aye 'tis a grand night for dancing!" Blaize tapped her tambourine against her hip, swirling around, her fiery locks and golden gown shimmered and swirled around. "Wind, Ariel give us some wind." Ariel floated down to the ground, she folded her wings and stepped forward. Her gown was white as the clouds that she spins. Her blonde hair framed her pale face. She lifted up her arms and a small breeze began to play around Blaize.
Rayna swam up to the edge of the water watching her sisters at play. She loved dancing just as much as they did, but the feel of water against her fin, well nothing else was like it. Although she'd heard mortals say that love was like nothing else. She stepped out of the water, her gown an iridescent silvery blue. Her midnight tendrils glimmered blue in the moonlight, her eyes silver-dropped.
"I do wonder Sisters." She joined her sisters at the bonfire.
"Wonder what Rayna?"
"What love is like. Have you not ever wondered the same?" She sighed dreamily. She walked over to a bank of rocks and reached into a crevice removing her lyre and bringing it forth. She saw that Blaize was already playing the tambourine, dancing in her full glory, the energy her sister emitted often overwhelmed them all. Blaize had the energy and temper, while Willow was the grounded one. Ariel always had her head in the clouds, which of course she couldn't help, being the Mistress of Air. Rayna was the calm, mysterious one, she most often stood a bit apart from her sisters. Being on land was difficult for her to do. She saw Willow standing against her Weeping Willow tree.
"Shall we play?" Willow was on alert, she seemed pre-occupied with something. "Willow, is something a-miss?" Willow reached into the tree and pulled out her drum.
"Something is wrong, I can feel it in the earth. Someone is here."
Ariel began floating above them with her pan flute in hand. The others didn't respond to the warning. Each sister now had her instrument in hand and each went to stand beside each other. They linked hands and began singing. Very softly Willow began beating her drum as the world came alive with forest creatures. The trees began to sway and the flowers started to hum.
Blaize added the tambourine to the song, dancing around the fire with wild abandon. The flames leapt up and flickered and crackled. Lightning jumped across the sky. Thunder rumbled, as Ariel put the pan flute to her lips and started trilling her song. All eyes were on Rayna as she sat on her rock and strummed the Lyre with quick, nimble fingers. The river rushed forward and the fish and water creatures played. The thunder grew and drops of pure water began to rain down. It was a symphony of sound, a completion of music.
The Sisters concentrated on their instruments as an unearthly song began. Erik stood on the cliff hearing music. There was a stirring in his soul and he had abandoned his work and followed the magical sound. He knew it could be faery music but he did not care, did not heed the warnings. He needed to know who was playing, this time he must know. The sound entranced him, as music tended to always do since he was a child and his mother had sung to him. But this song, there was singing like that of a siren.
He called his horse to him and prepared to ride down the side of the hill. As he neared the source of the music he saw a bonfire and four women, dancing. In the middle of the night, under the full moonlight they danced. They were one. He had only seen them from afar, watched as they played their song and danced and watched nature perform for them. He stood behind the large Willow tree and peeked out. .
There was a feel of unease and each sister could feel it. They stopped playing, but Rayna continued singing. She was in a trance so deeply that she was unaware of what was taking place.
"I must have her for my own." Erik said to himself and anyone else that listened. The sisters stared at the man behind the tree, without the touch of the tree and the feel of the breeze Willow and Ariel were powerless without the connection of their element. Erik stumbled down the small hill and called to Rayna.
"Play sweet siren, play and I will forever be yours." Rayna's eyes opened and silver tears glistened. "You have called me with your song." Startled, she dropped her lyre and ran for the water. Erik picked up the strange instrument and dove into the water after the girl. She stood, turned around and faced him.
"You are my destiny and I am yours." She did not understand what was happening. The mortal held her lyre, her precious lyre, in his hands. She gasped and cried out, calling for her Sisters' aid. But none of them came to her.
She felt dizzy all of a sudden and there was an arm around her. She did not know where she was. She felt herself being carried. She saw Ariel and Willow weeping with their hands outstretched toward her. But she was too weak. She was too weak without the water and let the dizziness overtake her.
"You will never get away with this, Mortal. Fear me, fear the Blaize of fire, feel it. You have taken our Sister, you have taken the Mistress of Water and we shall take from you. One day, we will have our revenge. It will not take long for there to be a lack of water in your village. Prepare yourself!" Blaize threatened and threw up a wall of fire, but Erik just walked through it unscathed.
"She protects him, dear sister keep well until we return for you." Blaize stood on the rock and Ariel and Willow rushed toward her.
"He will not get away with this. We need Mother's help. She will know what to do. Dear Mother, what has he done?"
Images swam in Rayna's mind and she found herself once more holding the blue and silver pouch. She caressed the fabric and put it against her cheek. It felt cool to the touch and familiar. She stood up and walked out of the house. The fire had been put out and she and her family were unharmed. She walked past her husband and her Sisters. She knelt to her children and gave them one last hug each. Then she walked toward the dry riverbed. She lifted the lyre out of the pouch and strummed a few strings. The sound of water was refreshing and as the river began to fill she put her bare feet in. It felt like heaven. She was home at last. Her Sisters joined her and they began to play as well.
She sang of her time in the Mortal World and she sang of the past and of the future. She sang like she had never sung before. Silver tears streamed down her cheeks. However, Blaize's face told her all she needed to know. She ran forward just as a lightning bolt was coming from the sky and sent up an arc of water protecting her husband.
"You deserve the treatment of my fiery-tempered sister, but our children still need you, so you will be spared. I have loved you for only a short time in my world, but long enough in yours to have been blessed. Yet I have grieved all these years, grieved and felt the emptiness a void within me so deeply. Never ever compromise or interfere with the Laws of Nature. For if this is to ever happen again I fear Mother will take care of it herself." With that, Rayna stepped forward, embraced her Sisters.
"Once, you were my destiny. Once, when I was young, you were all that I dreamed. But that time is over and now I know who I am. Now I must take my place beside my sisters, we must bring order back to the land."
She waded out into the water and felt herself transform. Rain poured down on all the Earth and nature once more came alive with the life force. A moment later, a quicksilver fin splashed and disappeared beneath the surface

A mortals fall and a Mermaids call





Mortal's Fall
The wind whispers
His name, he stops
Listening for the voice
The voice in his dreams
It haunts him and
Taunts him
Rest cannot be found
Like the tinkling
Of distant windchimes
Crystalline and pure
The voice calls to him
He knows the tales
Great legends
Reduced to stories
Told ‘round the campfire
His fate to revive them
Bring them back to life
Set the magic free
Answer the call
Hear her plea
He’s been warned
Knows what will come to be
And yet, he will set me free.










Mermaid's Call
Look into my eyes
Are you scared
Of what you see there?
Are you ashamed
Angered, or do
You see love?
I can ease the pain
Within your heart
The dark night of
Your immortal soul
Help you shed
The mortal shell
Lose yourself
Inside my swell
You’ve let go
Don’t stop now
Step into my
Watery embrace
I’ll lead you to
A better place
Swim beside me
Don’t despise me
Does it look like I
Enjoy what I must do?
If you only knew
The agony of an
Angel of the sea
My fins are my wings
And my song a chant
A prayer
Listen as I sing
Close your eyes
I will lull you to sleep
And kiss away the
Tears you weep
Call me Siren, Enchantress,
Lorelei, Mermaid,
daughter of the sea
I can show you the way
Come with me.

For the love of a Mermaid




For the love of a mermaid
He crushed her expectations
And sweet anticipation
and broke her fragile heart
He denied their connection
ripped her soul asunder
his love dragged her under
stuck in the muck
of a still life, stagnant
and closing in on
precious breath
he, captivated by
undersea enchantress
she,sucking the life out
of his mortal lover’s soul
drowning in her siren song
and swimming in her eyes
as light fades to nothing-
left of another silly girl
whose youth she wears
over ancient crone
paper-thin blue skin
shifting into beauty
He is bewitched and may
Never realize the switch
Her eyes tell dark lies
Her mouth, pink coral
bruising his blue-cold lips
he gasps for air as he
holds onto her delicate body
blue shimmers beneath
eyes closed, no need to see
sensations and emoceans
tingle, tickle, tantalize
gentle kisses she
breathes ocean life in
air no longer needed
a watery embrace
swift dance
vow never to leave
desire to always be filled
satiated by ocean soul
for the love a mermaid…
forever entranced.

The Lady Of Shallot

Willows whiten,
aspens quiver,
Little breezes dusk and shiver
Thro' the wave that runs for ever
By the island in the river
Flowing down to Camelot.
Four gray walls, and four gray towers,
Overlook a space of flowers,
And the silent isle imbowersThe Lady of Shalott.
One of the many poems about her.
Story weaver
cursed dreamer;
though her beauty
unmatched by any woman
she still cannot
turn his heart
towards her
forever
the other is
on his mind
the wife
of his king
the illicit affair
she knows the truth
for she sees it
through the threads
of her very being
and so she
weaves
from twilight to midnight
to dawn's early light
weaving other people's stories
dreaming other people's love
this her only companion
as her fingers
work nimbly
with heart numb
she knows her destiny
her very life
lies with the man
in the enchanted
looking glass
she cares not
she knows the curse
she knows that
to look upon
his very face
means death
her gaze moves
beyond her reflection
to the world
alive outside
she beholds his
handsome face
a beautiful end
to a tragic life
she welcomes the
end to her
story.
The Lady of Shallot, a poem by Alfred Lord TennysonThe Lady of Shallot, named Elaine, and also called the Fair Maid of Astolat, was a beautiful woman who lived alone in a tower on an island in the river that flows down to Camelot.
She is held in her room by a curse which does not allow her to go out or even look out the window. Instead she can only see the world through a mirror, which in some versions of the story is a magic mirror but in most is just a large mirror that allows her to see what is happening in the outside world.
She weaves tapestries, pictures made with thread, and uses the things she sees in her mirror--scenes of Camelot--as the subject of her tapestries.

"There she weaves by night and day A magic web with colours gay. She has heard a whisper say, A curse is on her if she stay To look down to Camelot. She knows not what the curse may be, And so she weaveth steadily, And little other care hath she, The Lady of Shalott."

She gets upset sometimes that she cannot be a part of life outside her window.

"But in her web she still delights To weave the mirror's magic sights, For often thro' the silent nights A funeral, with plumes and lights And music, went to Camelot: Or when the moon was overhead, Came two young lovers lately wed: 'I am half sick of shadows,' said The Lady of Shalott."

When the handsome knight Sir Lancelot passes by her window, she is overwhelmed by him, and forgetting the curse, she looks out the window to see him directly! When she does, the mirror breaks, and the threads of her tapestry break as well...

"She left the web, she left the loom, She made three paces thro' the room, She saw the water-lily bloom, She saw the helmet and the plume, She look'd down to Camelot. Out flew the web and floated wide; The mirror crack'd from side to side; 'The curse is come upon me,' cried The Lady of Shalott."

She goes down to the riverside and finds a boat, and on the prow (front) of the boat she writes "The Lady of Shallot".
She unties the boat and lies down in it, and as she floats down the river toward Camelot, she sings a song.
As the curse works it's evil magic, her blood freezes to her cold death.
The boat lands on the shore of Camelot where where the people of Camelot come out to see what this is, and they see that she has written her name on the front of the boat. In the crowd is Sir Lancelot, who does not know what has happened:

"Who is this? and what is here? And in the lighted palace near Died the sound of royal cheer; And they cross'd themselves for fear, All the knights at Camelot: But Lancelot mused a little space;He said, 'She has a lovely face; God in his mercy lend her grace, The Lady of Shalott.'"
Part I
On either side the river lie
Long fields of barley and of rye,
That clothe the wold and meet the sky;
And thro' the field the road runs by
To many-tower'd Camelot;And up and down the people go,
Gazing where the lilies blowRound an island there below,
The island of Shalott.
Willows whiten, aspens quiver,
Little breezes dusk and shiver
Thro' the wave that runs for ever
By the island in the river
Flowing down to Camelot.Four gray walls, and four gray towers,
Overlook a space of flowers,
And the silent isle imbowersThe Lady of Shalott.
By the margin, willow-veil'd,
Slide the heavy barges trail'd
By slow horses; and unhail'd
The shallop flitteth silken-sail'd
Skimming down to Camelot:
But who hath seen her wave her hand?
Or at the casement seen her stand?
Or is she known in all the land,The Lady of Shalott?
Only reapers, reaping early
In among the bearded barley,
Hear a song that echoes cheerly
From the river winding clearly,
Down to tower'd Camelot:
And by the moon the reaper weary,
Piling sheaves in uplands airy,
Listening, whispers "'Tis the fairyLady of Shalott."
Part II
There she weaves by night and day
A magic web with colours gay.
She has heard a whisper say,
A curse is on her if she stay
To look down to Camelot.
She knows not what the curse may be,
And so she weaveth steadily,
And little other care hath she,The Lady of Shalott.
And moving thro' a mirror clear
That hangs before her all the year,
Shadows of the world appear.
There she sees the highway near
Winding down to Camelot:
There the river eddy whirls,
And there the surly village-churls,
And the red cloaks of market girls,
Pass onward from Shalott.
Sometimes a troop of damsels glad,
An abbot on an ambling pad,
Sometimes a curly shepherd-lad,
Or long-hair'd page in crimson clad,
Goes by to tower'd Camelot;
And sometimes thro' the mirror blue
The knights come riding two and two:
She hath no loyal knight and true,The Lady of Shalott.
But in her web she still delights
To weave the mirror's magic sights,
For often thro' the silent nights
A funeral, with plumes and lights
And music, went to Camelot:
Or when the moon was overhead,
Came two young lovers lately wed;
"I am half sick of shadows," saidThe Lady of Shalott.
Part III
A bow-shot from her bower-eaves,
He rode between the barley-sheaves,
The sun came dazzling thro' the leaves,
And flamed upon the brazen greaves
Of bold Sir Lancelot.
A red-cross knight for ever kneel'd
To a lady in his shield,
That sparkled on the yellow field,
Beside remote Shalott.
The gemmy bridle glitter'd free,
Like to some branch of stars we see
Hung in the golden Galaxy.
The bridle bells rang merrily
As he rode down to Camelot:
And from his blazon'd baldric slung
A mighty silver bugle hung,
And as he rode his armour rung,
Beside remote Shalott.
All in the blue unclouded weather
Thick-jewell'd shone the saddle-leather,
The helmet and the helmet-feather
Burn'd like one burning flame together,
As he rode down to Camelot.
As often thro' the purple night,
Below the starry clusters bright,
Some bearded meteor, trailing light,
Moves over still Shalott.
His broad clear brow in sunlight glow'd;
On burnish'd hooves his war-horse trode;
From underneath his helmet flow'd
His coal-black curls as on he rode,
As he rode down to Camelot.
From the bank and from the river
He flash'd into the crystal mirror,
"Tirra lirra," by the river
Sang Sir Lancelot.
She left the web, she left the loom,
She made three paces thro' the room,
She saw the water-lily bloom,
She saw the helmet and the plume,
She look'd down to Camelot.
Out flew the web and floated wide;
The mirror crack'd from side to side;
"The curse is come upon me," cried
The Lady of Shalott.

Part IV
In the stormy east-wind straining,
The pale yellow woods were waning,
The broad stream in his banks complaining,
Heavily the low sky raining
Over tower'd Camelot;
Down she came and found a boat
Beneath a willow left afloat,
And round about the prow she wrote
The Lady of Shalott.
And down the river's dim expanse
Like some bold seer in a trance,
Seeing all his own mischance -
With a glassy countenanceDid she look to Camelot.
And at the closing of the day
She loosed the chain, and down she lay;
The broad stream bore her far away,
The Lady of Shalott.
Lying, robed in snowy white
That loosely flew to left and right -
The leaves upon her falling light -
Thro' the noises of the night
She floated down to Camelot:
And as the boat-head wound along
The willowy hills and fields among,
They heard her singing her last song,
The Lady of Shalott.
Heard a carol, mournful, holy,
Chanted loudly, chanted lowly,
Till her blood was frozen slowly,
And her eyes were darken'd wholly,
Turn'd to tower'd Camelot.
For ere she reach'd upon the tide
The first house by the water-side,
Singing in her song she died,
The Lady of Shalott.
Under tower and balcony,
By garden-wall and gallery,
A gleaming shape she floated by,
Dead-pale between the houses high,
Silent into Camelot.
Out upon the wharfs they came,
Knight and burgher, lord and dame,
And round the prow they read her name,
The Lady of Shalott.
Who is this? And what is here?
And in the lighted palace near
Died the sound of royal cheer;
And they cross'd themselves for fear,
All the knights at Camelot:
But Lancelot mused a little space;
He said, "She has a lovely face;
God in his mercy lend her grace,
The Lady of Shalott."

The Age Old Wisdom of Aphrodite



Aphrodite, or "foam-born" was what the Greeks called Venus. Greek legend tells that Kronos (Saturn) castrated his father Ouranos (Uranus) while Uranus lay in bed with his wife and Saturn’s mother, Gaia. When Saturn threw his father’s testicles into the sea near Cyprus, Venus emerged from the foam (hence "foam-born") and was taken to the island. Hesiod, the Greek poet who lived just after Homer (c. 700BC) best known for Theogony and Works and Days, tells it as follows:
"And so soon as he had cut off the members with flint and cast them from the land into the surging sea, they were swept away over the main a long time: and a white foam spread around them from the immortal flesh, and in it there grew a maiden. First she drew near holy Cythera, and from there, afterwards, she came to sea-girt Cyprus, and came forth an awful and lovely goddess, and grass grew up about her beneath her shapely feet. Her gods and men call Aphrodite, and the foam-born goddess and rich-crowned Cytherea, because she grew amid the foam, and Cytherea because she reached Cythera, and Cyprogenes ("Cyprus-born") because she was born in billowy Cyprus, and Philommedes (Genitals-lover) because she sprang from the members. And with her went Eros, and comely Desire followed her at her birth at the first and as she went into the assembly of the gods. This honor she has from the beginning, and this is the portion allotted to her amongst men and undying gods,- the whisperings of maidens and smiles and deceits with sweet delight and love and graciousness."
This ancient goddess, however, predates even her Cypriot and Greek forms. In Sumeria she was known as Inanna, in Babylon and Assyrian Ishtar, the Egyptians called her Hathor, Quaddesha and Aset, to the Phonecians she was Astarte, to the Hebrews Ashtoreth and Ashera, and to the Philistines Atergatis. And Homer’s tale that Zeus and his female form Dione were her parents creates an interesting paradox. Her foam-born birth occurred when Zeus’ father Saturn castrated Zeus’ grandfather Uranus. At that point, however, Saturn had yet to father his Olympian children, including Zeus himself.
Aphrodite's husband was the lame blacksmith god Hephaistos (Roman Vulcan), but her lover was Ares (Mars). Her children by Mars were Harmonia, Deimos (Fear) and Phobos (Panic). The latter two were usually involved in strife and battle; the planet Mars' two moons were named after them. She was also the mother of Hermaphroditus with Mercury (Hermes), Priapus with Dionysus (Bacchus), and Beroe (after whom the city Berytus in Lebanon was named) with Adonis. Adonis was so beautiful that while still a boy Aphrodite concealed him in a chest with the queen of the underworld, Persephone, who in turn became so enamored of Adonis that she wouldn't give him back. Zeus settled their dispute by dividing Adonis' year into three parts: one part he would have by himself, one part would be with Persephone, and the remainder would be with Aphrodite. But Adonis chose to spend his own part of the year with Aphrodite.
Aphrodite was also the mother of Eryx and Rhodes by Poseidon, Aeneas and Lyrus with Anchises (a mortal king killed by Zeus for drunkenly telling of his affair with Venus), Astynois with Phaethon (a beautiful young boy whom Venus ravished), Eryx with Butes (of Jason and the Argonauts), and Eros (Cupid) and Anteros (the avenging spirit of spurned love) by unknown fathers. Eros is alternately considered one of the first gods (as there could have been no immortals until Eros caused all things to mingle), hatched in Erebus (Darkness) from Nyx’s egg, or the son of Zephyrus (the west Wind) and Iris (the rainbow), or Saturn’s son. There is much dispute as to the parentage of some of her other children as well. Aphrodite is an erotic, fully sensual, unbridled, and often wanton goddess of love.
Venus’ symbol depicts the predominance of higher aspirations over the worldly and sensual desires of Earth, or the spirit (circle) overcoming matter (cross) through love. The goddess of love, money, beauty, and art, Venus is the brightest object in the sky other than the Sun and the Moon. Both Mercury and Venus display phases like the Moon when viewed through a telescope because they are closer to the Sun than we are. This is why Venus can only be seen in the evening soon after sunset or in the morning before sunrise. Because of this she is known as both the morning and the "evening star."

Why Men sleep with Women then pull away


Ok, listen closely.

I'm about to share something with you that I want you to NEVER, EVER forget.


It's the reality about how most men work when dating.

Ready?

A man will NEVER see your "worth" just because he's having sex with you.

It sucks, but that's the way men act sometimes.

And guess what?

You're dating a man.

So let me be very clear here: Just because a man has sex with a woman, it doesn't mean that he's spent even a second of his time deciding whether or not he wants to be with her in the future.

Got it? Ok, good.

Because even though you've already moved on to how you're going to settle down together, he hasn't even decided if he wants to try anything "serious" out with you. Sure, it would be great if a man let you know this before he slept with you, but that's not reality most of the time. And I'm willing to bet you played a part inthis. You're not entirely innocent. Were you up-front and honest about what you were looking for? Or did your true feelings sneak up on you,freak you out, and then freak him out too?


GIVING AWAY YOUR "SELF" TO A MAN I've got an important question for you... Who made this guy the final judge of your"worth" as a woman? The answer... You did. Cut it out. And I'll bet I know WHY you did it. I'm going to get a bit "deep" and "spiritual" here with you, all in the name of tough love.


You're seeking his APPROVAL in the worst kind of way.

You're waiting and wanting HIM to show YOU that you deserve the experience of openand unrestrained love. You're counting on him to be the strong and masculine lover you've always wanted, who will break through the barriers in both of your hearts. That way you can SURRENDER to the deep kind of love that you truly desire from a man. Unfortunately, that's not what's happeningor how he FEELS with you right now. But deep down, you believe that if you can come up with enough "proof" that he should love and value you, and if you can make things "perfect" between you two, then he'll become the open and loving man you imagine him to be. It's time. It's time for the little girl who's seekinga man's approval in order to experience love to grow up. It's time for you to stop hoping that a man will become the man you want him to be, when he shows you that he doesn't even have a clue about what love is or how to be with a woman. But you're so wrapped up in his perspective, what he's doing, his feelings, his emotions and his desires (or lack thereof) that you've all but forgotten about something WAY MORE IMPORTANT.

What YOU really want. I'll take a wild guess here and bet that the kind of guy that you truly want isn't the kind of guy who would act how this guy is acting. As in, the kind of guy who would sleep with a woman and then act distant and irritated with her just because she wants to talk about how she's feeling. So, sorry for asking but... What the h#ll are you doing!? You're wasting your energy trying to get the love and approval of someone who acts like a person you don't even want to be with!?


Ok, now that we've verbally smacked you arounda little bit, we can move on from what NOT to do to learning what to do.


LOVE, SEX AND THE MIND OF THE "MASCULINE MAN" You need a lesson on who a man really is.

There are FASCINATING biological reasons for why men act the way they do.

But the reasons that are the most important for you to understand right now aren't the"scientific" ones. I'm going to get a tiny bit "out there" rightnow, but stick with me... There's a big difference between what I'llcall the "masculine" energy and the "feminine" love or energy. Pay careful attention here. The feminine energy grows with fullness,praise, connection and love, to allow a kind of "surrender" in all kinds of joyful experiences. With sex, women surrender to the experience with a man through love and connection, which can make the man and woman as one. But the masculine energy doesn't work this way. At least not in the "darker" part of a man. The masculine energy is VERY different. The masculine energy seeks to break throughchallenges all alone and arrive at its desire - "emptiness" and "freedom". Have you ever heard a man talk about how he wanted his "freedom"... and you wondered what the hell he was talking about? And you could tell that he didn't even really know what he meant by his "freedom". This "freedom" or emptiness is actually the masculine means of surrender and fulfillment. Just as the feminine means is connection andloving. Ever noticed that lots of men fall right to sleep or act like they're off somewhere else after sex? There are tons of pop-culture references tomen doing this in TV, movies, books, etc. People know that men often behave this way. It's "conventional wisdom". But most people don't really know WHY men act this way. Here's my favorite way of explaining it... Have you ever thought about why so many menhave a strong addiction to watching sports events. Well, each game is setup in a specific way that draws a man's emotions into the experience. At the center of each game is a person or a team that rises up to overcome. It's a kind of trial where a man will break through hardship, competition and challenge. And when a team or player scores a goal or a touchdown and celebrates, something fascinating takes place. The man "breaks through" the challenge into "freedom" and the final emptiness of victory. Then the men will celebrate as though their greatest desires have been fulfilled and cry out as they never have before. Bizarre and fascinating... Ok, back to Earth. How does this relate to dating, sex and love? With sex, a man doesn't "surrender" to love and connection the way a woman does... unless he learns to.

** And yes, a man can and should learn how to surrender himself with his woman to love ** But instead, men often seek the physical challenge of sex as a goal unto itself, wherethey can break through to a temporary "freedom" and emptiness. Whoa... Heavy stuff. Here's the point, in case you don't liketalking in myths and metaphors. B


ut first, don't go telling this story to the man you're dating or with out of the blue. He will think you're CRAZY - unless he's the kind of guy that's already on a more spiritual kind of "path". This is for YOU to know and to work with. So back to you.... Notice that in physical experiences with women, or in life for that matter, most men don't have the same strong drive to be deeplyand unwaveringly CONNECTED to the people around them like most healthy women do. Often times, they're driven by something that has nothing to do with love, intimacyand connection.

Yeah, I know. Men are CRAZY and messed up and different. But men don't have to be bizarre and strange this way if they LEARN and become AWARE. Or... If they have a woman who gets it, she can lead and challenge him into finding freedom through love and connected experience, not through empty physical experience and isolation.

LET'S TIE IT ALL TOGETHER Here's the thing... A man will NEVER see you exactly the way you want him to see you, or value you exactly the way you know you should be valued, if... you're doing things just to seek and win his love and APPROVAL. Yes, you might have "goofed" by being physical with him too early. But stop being so hard on yourself. It'sthe past, and it's not the problem now. The real problem now is something entirelydifferent. Sleeping or being physical with a man isNOT a bad thing. Trust me. wink, wink. But you've got to create the right feelingswithin him before and during the experience of being together for it to truly bring you closer in love.


Sorry, but just being there isn't going todo it and reach a man's heart. Wow, I just realized... men are actually so high-maintenance. Anyways... So you want to know how to "re-wire" things? Here's what to do first: Stop wanting the fact that you've had sex to magically win him over into being an open and loving partner like you are. Then go back and read the section in my bookinside Chapter 8 called "Triggering A Deeper Level Of Attraction In A Man". What you need to know is there. (and read, re-read and put it to use this time!) But let's keep going and I'll touch on a fewof the same points that are in there. Ever thought about what a man really wants in a woman to date or fall in love with? I'm talking about mature, healthy men here. ** They want someone that they WANT ** They want to WANT a woman, to worship her, to please her, to ravish her, and to sweep her off her feet with their physical and emotional presence. And for the woman to be utterly and completelytaken with them and what they do. I'm sure you've seen or heard this kind of male fairy tale before. So why don't men just act this way with women if this is what they want? Ahhh... welcome to dating. Because most women don't create the experiencethat will make a man FEEL this way. So here's a "center-piece" of the puzzle... I call it the "Pursuit Gene". There's a drive in men that makes them want to be CHALLENGED... and to overcome that challenge. I know it sounds cliché, but it's true. Remember the "spiritual" story from earlier? Men want to be challenged by the idea of meeting, attracting, and pursuing a woman. And then they want to win the woman over and feel stronger as a man for having done it.


Men deal with this in one of two ways:


1. They find more "freedom" and emptiness by physically being with a woman in the short term


2. They find connection and love by physicallyAND emotionally being with the woman in a deeperand "longer-term" way Here's the AMAZING part... A woman helps him choose which it will be with her.

Interesting... The point is, men LOVE the chase. Some men might tell you that they don't. They do.

Men love the chase and the challenge not in their "logical" minds, but down where it counts. They love it in their FEELINGS and EMOTIONS.

It's part of their genetic make-up. B

ut if a woman loses control emotionally,seeks HIS APPROVAL or thinks she can trade sexto receive love before a man's experiencing an intense desire to WIN HER OVER and to be with her, then something bad happens.

The man loses that feeling of excitementand challenge with her. He recognizes that the woman has already given over physical and emotional CONTROL to him. Which destroys the strongest "lead-in" tocreating lasting love with a man. It's just one simple word.


ATTRACTION. Men want to feel ATTRACTION. And I don't mean that they want to talk aboutit or analyze it so that it makes "sense". They don't want to listen to what a woman tells them is going on and then come to accept and understand how and why they should be in love. No. That's not how men work. Instead, they want to FEEL their desire for awoman inside their whole body, emotionally driving them, and for it to be undeniable and unrelenting. Get where I'm going here?


If you don't make a man FEEL ATTRACTION for you and trigger the emotional desire deep inside him to win you over and be with you for the long term, then there's no amount of talking, sharing, or SEX that can change his mind. In my ebook "Catch Him & Keep Him" I talk about the VERY BEST ways to create great experiences and situations with men. Experiences and situations that will make a man respond to a woman with INTENSE DESIRE andATTRACTION. And not just in the "empty" physical sense, but instead with more deeply connected feelings. Chapter 9 of the book is titled "From Casual To Committed - Communication Secrets with Men& New Relationships" In it are some of my very best ideas on howto build the right "emotional environment" for a man to feel addicted to the love, connection and attraction you share. He'll wonder why he didn't find you and figureout how to be in love sooner.